whats crazy, is the minute i heard him say it i knew what he was trying to say vs how it sounded and i knew there would be a shit storm… truthfully i havent been paying a good deal of attention to this whole thing since the initial incident and apology… did he ever go back and clarify? explain what he was trying to say? i have always felt that there is an important distinction to be made between domestic violence and a couple fighting. i squared off with a man a was dating once, and before i could even swing he asked me where i wanted it? stopped me dead in my tracks. he said wherever you punch me is exactly where the fuck imma punch you. changed my life. up to that point i had honestly (and wrongly) always felt like i could hit a dude and he just wasnt allowed to hit me back. period. screaming all in his face finger to the side of his head and he was just supposed to be disrespected because boys aren’t allowed to hit girls. that shit is ridiculous. and completely unfair. and completely different from domestic violence.
bless ha heart
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